Is It Possible To Be Happy?
Is it possible to be happy all of the time?
Well, yes, but you have to really want that happiness, and as I mention next, it helps to improve your surroundings.
What can I do to increase my happiness potential?
Take a look around you. Think about being a kid. The day when you stop imagining your own environment, when you stop building your own surroundings, when you stop waving a magic hand and gracing everything around you with magic and beauty, things cease to be magical, things cease to be beautiful, and happiness ceases to be available.
Can we buy happiness with money?
Beyond basic survival needs, more money does not mean more happiness.
Can we use our power to force happiness upon ourselves?
In a strange way, this is actually possible.
To explain that last one, allow me to quote the Buddhist monk
Thich Nhat Hanh from his book The Art of Power:
What most people call power Buddhists call cravings. The five cravings are for wealth, fame, sex, fancy food, and lots of sleep. In Buddhism, we speak of the five true powers, five kinds of energy. The five powers are faith, diligence, mindfulness, concentration, and insight. The five powers are the foundation of real happiness.
The first source of energy is faith. When you have the energy of faith in you, you are strong. The word faith is better translated as “confidence” and “trust,” because it is about something inside you and not directed toward something external. Faith is having a path that leads in a good direction.
The second kind of power is diligence. You are capable of coming back to your best and highest self, but you must maintain this practice. When you create mindfulness you have the power to keep a good mental formation. People with the energy of diligence are extraordinarily powerful. They can transform themselves; they can help transform the community, the environment, and the world.
The third power is the power of mindfulness. Mindfulness is the energy of being aware of what is happening in the present moment. Whether you are cooking, or washing, or cleaning, or sitting, or eating, it is a time for you to recognize what is happening in the here and now.. It helps you know what you should do and what you should not do. When we walk with mindfulness, dwelling in the present moment, no longer pulled by our regrets about the past or our worries concerning the future, we touch the wonders of life and each step nourishes our happiness.
Mindfulness brings about the fourth power, the power of concentration. When you drink your tea, just drink your tea. Enjoy drinking your tea. Please don’t drink your suffering, your despair, your projects. This is very important. Otherwise you can’t nourish yourself. Concentration can help us look deeply into the nature of reality and bring about the kind of insight that can liberate us from suffering.
Insight, the fifth power, is a sword that painlessly cuts through all kinds of suffering, including fear, despair, anger, and discrimination. Insight comes from understanding. There may be elements of understanding in us already, but if we don’t have time to be mindful and concentrate, insight won’t manifest in us. If you allow yourself to get lost in regrets about the past and worries about the future, it is difficult for insight to grow, and it will be more difficult to know what right action to take in the present.
It is because of ignorance that we suffer. When we begin to touch insight, we are deeply in touch with reality and there is no longer any fear. There is compassion. There is acceptance. There is tolerance. This is why we talk about insight as a kind of superpower. All of the first four powers lead to this fifth superpower. And with insight comes a tremendous source of happiness.
After reading this excerpt, what becomes clear is that true power and the solution to eternal happiness is not sex, money, and fame. True power and happiness is attained by diligently walking a path of good intention while being mindful and focusing on the present moment to gain insight. This kind of power forces happiness upon ourselves in a beautiful way, because insight and happiness are naturally symbiotic.

